Change is an inevitable part of life. It can be difficult to accept and embrace, but it is important to remember that change happens one moment at a time. We may find ourselves feeling triggered or frustrated when change occurs, but it is important to recognize that these feelings are often connected to a deeper source.

In this Light Up Your Worth episode host Debbie McAllister reflects on the importance of recognizing patterns in ourselves by sharing a conversation with a friend triggered by certain behaviors in her work environment. Debbie explains that these patterns come up for us to feel and heal them and that when we feel frustrated or irritated, it may not actually be about what's currently happening but rather a subconscious memory of where the frustration came from. Through her experience with her puppy, Debbie reminds us that we cannot control anything else around us except ourselves and our reactions.